Psychology Takeaway Podcast

Jim and Ralph have moved from the hospital, where they were last week, to Ralph’s living room where he continues to mend. The boys have been reading Mel Robbins book Let Them. In their discussion they acknowledge that trying to control someone else does not work well even if your intentions are good.

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Here is the link to Mel’s podcast; it is almost one hour long but well worth listening to: https://youtu.be/d4z5C8G32AY?si=CAwJXzH9sTSoQWYv

Jim is joining the Catholic Church in a couple of weeks. Read about his life time experience with Catholicism has taught an old psychologist: https://a.co/d/0gwqfYcC

 

Jim and Ralph are back together podcasting after Ralph’s accident. They analyze the latest published Happiness Index and learn (no surprise here) that Social Media is negatively correlated with happiness.

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Happy song by Pharrell Williams: https://youtu.be/ZbZSe6N_BXs?si=y2bOFm6kRAFMYWnZ

The Peanuts Gang: Happiness Is: https://youtu.be/d13_LoHQkRM?si=md1lmVGB1Mq7Q76J

Jim’s book Overcoming Anxiety on Amazon: https://a.co/d/06U0HNtn

 

 

Jim is joined by his wife Sheila Carroll to look at how the natural world helps us to notice, focus, and heal. We look at the lives of famous people (and some not so famous – like Ralph) and see the impact nature had on them and the impact they had on nature. Sheila makes the case for preserving what we have and restoring what was lost.

 

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TED Talk: The Story That Shapes Your Relationship with Nature | Damon Gameau 

 https://youtu.be/nYZSPUi-lgE?si=R_ymVKCoGsNykXYf

TED Talk:
Contact with Nature: Three Transcendental Experiences in the Natural World: John Beatty - https://youtu.be/4uE6uBH1Smc?si=5YyfFe7HZKPRAUGI

How regenerative farming can help heal the planet and human health | Charles Massy | TEDxCanberra - https://youtu.be/Et8YKBivhaE?si=cAJbdqc7tolbKqX7

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Aslan’s Breath and the First Thaw

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Mouse City Beneath the Snow

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ENCORE PRESENTATION!!!

We are on break this week.

Consider these recent news breakers:

Y2K and the end of the world as we know it.

UFO’s , we are not alone.

Vaccines cause Autism.

While there is no objective evidence for these concerns, they have motivated human behavior during this and the past century. Jim and Ralph attribute this false belief to several factors: A Convergence Model

Imagine a person encountering an ambiguous event:

An unexplained aerial video circulates online. A government statement acknowledges uncertainty. Commentators disagree publicly.

Now consider the psychological environment:

A person already feels social change accelerating. (Uncertainty)

Their peer group prizes skepticism toward institutions. (Identity)

Headlines emphasize geopolitical threat. (Fear)

Institutional trust is low. (Distrust)

Each factor alone might not produce firm conviction.

Together, they create momentum.

 

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Short video about weird thought: https://youtu.be/5vOECJ6uu2E?si=5_n42G6_iT0tgArg

Conspiracy: https://youtu.be/3VEkzweBJPM?si=w0-RVZwGMRlh9jtC

You can get Jim’s book Oak Island Obsession on Amazon at: https://a.co/d/00GZb8lz

Is dating dead in 21st-century America? With guest Alex Graziano

It can certainly feel that way. Swiping has replaced chance encounters, “situationships” have replaced steady courtship, and apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are now the front door to modern romance. Young adults are marrying later, moving more cautiously, and often sitting in the ambiguity of the “talking stage.” Add in economic pressure, social media comparison, and an endless sense that someone better might be one swipe away, and it’s no wonder many people feel confused about where dating stands today.

But beneath the uncertainty, the longing for love and lasting connection hasn’t disappeared. What may be fading is the old script — not the desire for partnership. In this episode, Jim, Ralph, and guest Alex wrestle honestly with these shifts, exploring what’s changed, what hasn’t, and what a healthy connection looks like in a culture of endless choice. Their goal isn’t to lament the past or romanticize the present, but to offer context, clarity, and a little hope for navigating relationships in a complicated age.

 

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The low down on dating apps: https://youtu.be/gvOfCnwpcqo?si=1l8_gC3x5siihki8

The history of dating: https://youtu.be/Ob14PcHtazQ?si=rMQ6G2Z5gqdoayet

 

In 1665, Isaac Newton was sent home from school because of the plague. For most people, that would’ve been a time of survival, of just getting through. But Newton? He started wondering about why apples fall. He became curious about light, gravity, and time. And that curiosity—not certainty, not confidence—led to some of the most groundbreaking discoveries in science.

Here’s the thing we often miss: he didn’t get there because he was a genius. He got there because he stayed open. Curiosity is what allowed him to see possibilities where most of us would only see disruption.

Join Ralph and Jim as they explore the curios world of curiosity and the people and things that inhabit it.

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Here is a Ted Talk about Curiosity as a Superpower: https://youtu.be/ZJVw306-qM0?si=5TZ7dzXWyt6CxPlO

Do you think today’s kids are all screwed up? Think again:

https://youtu.be/5EPxwJwUPs4?si=8MlApXCzqMekmw7T

You can get ralph and Jim’s book, Raise Curios Kids at Amazon https://a.co/d/0eDgYYwo Raise Curious Kids is a warm, practical guide for parents, educators, and caregivers who want to do more than just help children succeed—they want to help them thrive. Written by longtime educators Jim Carroll, Ed.D., and Ralph Baber, M.A., this book explores curiosity not just as a trait, but as a mindset that fuels empathy, resilience, creativity, and lifelong learning.

In an era marked by chronic workload pressure, social fragmentation, and rising rates of burnout, play and laughter are not optional extras. They are essential processes that support psychological and physical health.

At the neurochemical level, laughter is associated with increased dopamine and serotonin—neurotransmitters involved in mood regulation, motivation, and learning. At the same time, laughter reduces cortisol levels, dampening the physiological stress response.

The story of Norman Cousins attests to the value of humor in his book Laughter is the Best Medicine.

 

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For burn victims: https://youtu.be/SLHi6H5lOwE?si=F0nHune7trneoVDr

What science shows: https://youtu.be/yqvMIoGXJQE?si=tMIPAeAQR2bQvOR1

A long (hour and a half) video with Cousins as he describes his illness and recovery: https://youtu.be/oYKpmnCS5lQ?si=rJaiaoAEwUoGumFx

 

There is a new Tiger out there

 

Jim and Ralph revisit CRISPR to see if it has become the tool that will eliminate illness forever. They answer that question and point to new developments using TIGR

 

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CRISP and TIGR: https://youtu.be/_UimlaolxiA?si=jXLYJM5528GKn71z

Jim and Ralph are joined by international jet-setter Andrea Assaf. They continue to look at the downside of making New Years Resolutions while Andrea comes up with her own brilliant solution.

They also investigate the Psychology of Travel.

Finally, Ralph unpacks a host of things we Americans should be thankful for in 2026!

This is a fast paced and podcast that you will want to share with friends, family and random strangers